‘YOU’RE LIKE STUNNER’S WIFE’

20 January 2017

Derek and Patience
Dereck and Patience

GREEN Ambassador and jazz crooner, Dereck Mpofu, is reportedly playing ‘hide and seek’ after impregnating his girlfriend.

The married singer has been accused of cheating on his wife with Patience Ndazi who is now 28 weeks pregnant.

Sources say the Chisikana Changu Zimbabwe singer is now denying responsibility of the unborn child, which prompted his girl-friend to open the lid with some chats between the two cementing the relationship as well as photographs.

 Dereck and Patience
Dereck and Patience

“For some time now, he has been acting up saying that l have changed after the pregnancy and blaming me for all sorts of things.

“I asked for some money to register the pregnancy and he kept giving me excuses until I borrowed some money and paid.

“I do not deserve such treatment because I have been taking care of this guy and now he is dumping me for no reason,” Patience said.

Patience said it had always been Dereck’s habit of acting up in their relationship.

“Dereck is a serial liar and is good at convincing people, I have chats in my email that prove the way he has been emotionally abusing me.

 Dereck and Patience
Dereck and Patience

“Ever since the pregnancy, he has been threatening to leave over silly issues; at one point he left me and moved in with a girl named Hilda.

“Sometimes he would accuse me of cheating and he isolated me from friends and family saying that I am a whore yet he is actually the one who has been cheating on his wife,” she said.

Dereck is said to have convinced Patience that he was no longer married to his wife.

“I am going to sue this guy for breach of contract, he lied to me that he had separated from his wife and now he is claiming that I knew that he is still married the whole time.

“We even got engaged because I thought I was dealing with someone who was no longer married.

“Surprisingly, now he mocks me and he even said that I got pregnant to a married man.

“He is now claiming that I am too much of a nag and said l should stop acting like Stunner’s wife,” Patience said.

Patience said she only got to realize that Dereck was still with his wife after Mai Vince (Derecks’s wife) texted her begging Patience not to ruin her marriage.

“She texted me on WhatsApp begging me to leave her husband and not ruin her marriage.

“To me, he said they were no longer together whereas he had left his wife and kids saying that he was at work,” she said.

Patience also claimed that Dereck had been financially dependent on her throughout the relationship.

“I gave him money and took care of everything he needed including rent; he has been coming to my workplace looking for some money.

“Right now he cannot even afford decent accommodation and is being kept at his in-laws’ place,” she said.

Contacted for comment, Dereck denied ever dumping Patience saying they ended the relationship after several fights and threats from her.

“In 2016 June, after a lengthy bad patch in my marriage, I got into a seemingly stable relationship with Patience whom I understood was a divorced mother of one.

“When she got pregnant, I accepted responsibility and agreed to formalise our relationship by moving in together and l was to pay lobola in March.

“However, this was not to be as during the course of our staying together, she exhibited a propensity for extortion, violence which turned into constant threats to smear me in the media,” he said.

He said Patience’s behaviour got worse as she became violent.

“I cannot count how many times I had to leave the house after being missed by intended knife stabs but I was not so lucky on other objects.

“She smashed my phone and I was unavailable on social media for two months and I was banned from communicating with the mother of my kids or try to visit my kids.

“I still maintain that she is mentally disturbed and needs help, I did not dump her but left because of such behaviour,” he said.

The talented choreographer said he has since mended relations with his first wife and said they are building their marriage again.

“I went back home to my wife and through our traditional family channels we settled our differences.

“I informed Patience of this development although she pleaded with me to become a second wife, marriage is now out of the picture.

“I will do proper chivanhu and provide for her and our child including her child from a previous relationship, I have also kept in constant touch with her, visiting her workplace to see how she is doing,” Dereck said.

He also said he is apologetic for the way things have turned out.

“I would like to apologise to everyone associated with me especially my wife whom I have reunited with for having to go through such an ordeal because of me.

“On one hand I am glad this issue is now out there as I was tired of threats although l would have preferred to handle it privately,” he said.

Below are the chats between Derreck and Patience:

[16/01, 08:11] Patience Ndazi: Gud morning sthandwa

[16/01, 09:28] Dereck: Good morning

[16/01, 09:29] Patience Ndazi: Urisei

[16/01, 09:29] Dereck: Am good. You are on leave now?

[16/01, 09:29] Patience Ndazi: Yes

[16/01, 09:30] Patience Ndazi: We can make our plans now

[16/01, 09:30] Dereck: Kuri kusparker?

[16/01, 09:30] Patience Ndazi: Kana wawana mari

[16/01, 09:30] Dereck: Kkkkk

[16/01, 09:30] Dereck: Kullies

[16/01, 09:30] Patience Ndazi: I miss you

[16/01, 09:30] Dereck: Kudarika ini?

[16/01, 09:30] Patience Ndazi: How much

[16/01, 09:31] Patience Ndazi: Iwewe?

[16/01, 09:31] Dereck: Lots

[16/01, 09:31] Patience Ndazi: Awwww

[16/01, 09:32] Patience Ndazi: I love you Derry

[16/01, 09:32] Dereck: Love you more Shensy

[16/01, 09:32] Patience Ndazi: 😘😘😘😘

[16/01, 09:32] Patience Ndazi: Please come and see me today

[16/01, 09:34] Patience Ndazi: Kana kusinganaye

[16/01, 15:29] Dereck: Mahwan

[16/01, 15:29] Dereck: Matennis angu atota. I need bhutsu bbes

[16/01, 15:56] Patience Ndazi: Awwww shem

[16/01, 17:39] Patience Ndazi: Derry

[16/01, 19:58] Dereck: Shensyyyyy

[16/01, 20:02] Patience Ndazi: Hie luv

[16/01, 20:02] Patience Ndazi: Urikuitei

[16/01, 20:05] Dereck: Am looking for bhutsu dzaVince

[16/01, 20:06] Patience Ndazi: Kupi futi kkkkkk

[16/01, 20:06] Patience Ndazi: Asi asiya panze

[16/01, 20:10] Dereck: Aewa. Buying for school

[16/01, 20:10] Patience Ndazi: At this time

[16/01, 20:11] Patience Ndazi: Saka wadziwana here

[16/01, 20:12] Patience Ndazi: Hello

[16/01, 20:13] Patience Ndazi: Awwww shweet

[16/01, 20:14] Dereck: Kkkk

[16/01, 20:14] Patience Ndazi: Asi mari yako yazoita

[16/01, 20:17] Patience Ndazi: Derry

[16/01, 20:18] Dereck: Because I bought school shoes?

[16/01, 20:18] Patience Ndazi: I’m just asking

[16/01, 20:18] Patience Ndazi: Haisi hondo

[16/01, 20:19] Dereck: Not yet

[17/01, 07:50] Patience Ndazi: Hey

[17/01, 07:50] Dereck: Sup

[17/01, 07:50] Patience Ndazi: How are you today?

[17/01, 07:51] Dereck: Can you give her $100 the rest tomorrow or Thursday?

[17/01, 07:51] Dereck: Am great

[17/01, 07:51] Patience Ndazi: Give who

[17/01, 07:52] Patience Ndazi: I don’t understand urikutii

[17/01, 07:54] Dereck: Can I send you $100 bucks wofanomupa on my behalf. The rest Thursday

[17/01, 07:54] Patience Ndazi: Oh okay

[17/01, 07:54] Patience Ndazi: Send me how

[17/01, 07:55] Dereck: 🙄

[17/01, 07:55] Dereck: Ecocash

[17/01, 07:55] Patience Ndazi: Okay

[17/01, 08:10] Patience Ndazi: Dereck

[17/01, 08:11] Dereck: Hey

[17/01, 08:14] Patience Ndazi: Are you coming to see me today?

[17/01, 08:14] Patience Ndazi: I miss you sha

[17/01, 08:31] Dereck: I miss you more

[17/01, 08:31] Dereck: It’s raining but will come

[17/01, 08:32] Patience Ndazi: By the way nditengerewo 25 bucks ndinonyoresawo please I’m 28 weeks now which means 7mnths. Please if I don’t do it now ndiripaoff won’t manage til next off which is 3 weeks away

[17/01, 08:33] Patience Ndazi: Nditsvagirewo

[17/01, 08:34] Patience Ndazi: Okay see you when you come

[17/01, 08:34] Patience Ndazi: Love you

[17/01, 08:39] Dereck: Love you more

[17/01, 10:27] Patience Ndazi: Hey

[17/01, 10:32] Patience Ndazi: Dereck

[17/01, 11:08] Dereck: Hey

[17/01, 11:08] Patience Ndazi: Hie urikuitei

[17/01, 11:08] Dereck: Paying school fees

[17/01, 11:08] Patience Ndazi: Oh okay

[17/01, 11:09] Patience Ndazi: Makazowana nzvimbo

[17/01, 11:09] Dereck: Yep

[17/01, 11:09] Patience Ndazi: That’s nice

[17/01, 11:09] Patience Ndazi: So anotanga when

[17/01, 11:10] Dereck: Tomorrow

[17/01, 11:10] Patience Ndazi: Shem new friends

[17/01, 11:11] Patience Ndazi: Asi uri busy stereki

[17/01, 11:42] Dereck: Yah

[17/01, 11:43] Dereck: My ecocash iri kuramba kuita transfer

[17/01, 11:55] Patience Ndazi: So uchaitasei

[17/01, 15:38] Patience Ndazi: Heeey

[17/01, 16:15] Patience Ndazi: Dereck

[17/01, 16:23] Patience Ndazi: By the way nditsvagirewo 25 bucks ndinonyoresawo please I’m 28 weeks now which means 7mnths. Please if I don’t do it now ndiripaoff won’t manage til next off which is 3 weeks away

[17/01, 16:23] Patience Ndazi: Did you see this message earlier

[17/01, 16:23] Patience Ndazi: You ddnt reply

[17/01, 17:29] Dereck: Ibho

[17/01, 19:05] Patience Ndazi: Ndakuti I love you paphone bbes

[17/01, 19:05] Patience Ndazi: Asi hauna kunzwa

[17/01, 19:28] Dereck: Sorry handina🙈

[17/01, 19:28] Patience Ndazi: Kkkkkk

[17/01, 19:28] Patience Ndazi: So

[17/01, 19:29] Dereck: Eish

[17/01, 19:29] Patience Ndazi: You can tell me now

[17/01, 19:30] Dereck: I love you more 😘😘😘

[17/01, 19:31] Patience Ndazi: How much more

[17/01, 19:35] Dereck: Lots more. Kkkkk

[17/01, 19:35] Patience Ndazi: Okay luv

[17/01, 19:49] Patience Ndazi: See you tomorrow

[17/01, 22:54] Dereck: Hey

[17/01, 22:54] Dereck: Nyt

[17/01, 23:41] Patience Ndazi: Nyt

BELOW ARE CHATS BETWEEN PATIENCE AND DERECK’S WIFE

30/10/2016, 21:05 – Messages you send to this chat and calls are now secured with end-to-end encryption. Tap for more info.

30/10/2016, 18:29 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Hy

30/10/2016, 21:08 – Patience Ndazi: Hello

31/10/2016, 10:18 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Its mai vince

31/10/2016, 10:23 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: I’ve been Dee for 8yrs and we’ve got three kids… And we are not yet divorced… Pliz Patients uri mukadzi semi u how it hurts …pliz pliz ndokymbirawo uaa ruin marriage yangu pliz pliz help me ndaomerwa

31/10/2016, 10:33 – Patience Ndazi: So what do you want me to do?

31/10/2016, 10:35 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Ummm ..adzoke kumba ane one month…plus handina cheku feeder vana

31/10/2016, 10:35 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Plus rent

31/10/2016, 10:37 – Patience Ndazi: Akabva when

31/10/2016, 10:39 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Last September achiti arikuenda kubasa….

31/10/2016, 10:40 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Mahwan ndaomerwa

31/10/2016, 10:40 – Patience Ndazi: Okay will talk to him

31/10/2016, 10:41 – Patience Ndazi: Coz that’s not what he told me

31/10/2016, 10:41 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Thank you so much

31/10/2016, 10:41 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: 😱😱😱

31/10/2016, 10:42 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Do u trust me

31/10/2016, 10:42 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: We can meet aripo …

31/10/2016, 10:42 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Then u will the truth

31/10/2016, 10:43 – Patience Ndazi: Uuuuum let me talk to him first

31/10/2016, 10:43 – Patience Ndazi: Then we will c

31/10/2016, 10:43 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Ohky

31/10/2016, 10:43 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Thanks

31/10/2016, 10:51 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Sry…. As I manga matoita move in together

31/10/2016, 10:51 – Patience Ndazi: Yah

31/10/2016, 10:52 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: 😱😱😱😱😱😱

31/10/2016, 10:52 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Mashura ummm zvakaoma

31/10/2016, 10:53 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Hatina kurambana isu ummm Dee anodarirei nhai eish

31/10/2016, 10:54 – Patience Ndazi: Iye he says differently

31/10/2016, 10:56 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Arikutii

31/10/2016, 10:56 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Wat is he saying nhai

31/10/2016, 10:56 – Patience Ndazi: U not together anymore

31/10/2016, 10:57 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Haaah ..lemme send ma chats angu naye

31/10/2016, 10:57 – Patience Ndazi: Okay send

31/10/2016, 11:09 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: How can l send ma names achibuda..

31/10/2016, 11:09 – Patience Ndazi: Screen shot

31/10/2016, 11:10 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Ohky kul

31/10/2016, 11:19 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: Hi Mai Vince.
CONVERSATION BETWEEN DERECK MPOFU AND HIS WIFE

Happy 8th anniversary to us to the most beautiful woman and most loyal wife in the world. This day 8 years ago 23 October 2008 is the day I said I do to you. I love you and pray for 8 better years ahead.😘😘😘😘

[10/23, 14:08] TATIANA: Hey bbe happy anniversary to u too

[10/23, 14:08] ba vince: I miss you my bbe😘😘😘

[10/23, 14:08] TATIANA: Manje ukuuya here ndanga ndanyira tsamba chaiyo

[10/23, 14:38] TATIANA: Ndanyora*

[10/23, 15:07] ba vince: Ndiri kuZvishavane back tomorrow

[10/23, 15:08] ba vince: 😘😘😘

[10/23, 16:49] TATIANA: Bbe ndaisa msg Ku star FM….l hope u were listening ..

[10/23, 16:54] TATIANA: Ko is a pa profile or status about our anniversary.

[10/23, 17:00] ba vince: Kubvira nezuro ndakaisa.Will take you out. Pane kaMwana katiri kutsvagira mari katiri kubatsira kaakufa

[10/23, 17:01] ba vince: Will send money tomorrow

[10/23, 17:08] TATIANA: 😏😏😏

[10/23, 17:08] TATIANA: Hooo

[10/23, 17:10] TATIANA: Saka mangwana hausi kuuya kuzoti una here

[10/23, 17:11] ba vince: Ndiri kuuya

[10/23, 17:11] ba vince: Irisei imbwa iya mudhara uyu?

[10/23, 17:13] TATIANA: Handizive am not talking to them all.vanorwadziwa neka life kedu zvawaindiitira vaizvichiva….

[10/23, 17:17] TATIANA: Vanochiva ka life kedu😜😜😜

[10/23, 17:55] TATIANA: 😞😞😞😞

[10/23, 17:55] TATIANA: Ummmm amana blue tick here ayas

[10/23, 18:07] TATIANA: Ndisendere pic rako ndakuauwa then k will send mine lemme take mine …then l will send to u

31/10/2016, 13:30 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: [10/25, 10:37] TATIANA: Woooow u are looking hot and sex ….l luv u more

[10/25, 10:39] TATIANA: Iiiiiii voice iro ☝so so sexieeee ummmm pandinokuwinaka😘😘

31/10/2016, 13:30 – ‪+263 73 720 8872: [10/25, 11:17] ba vince: Kkkkk

[10/25, 11:18] ba vince: Uri kukakamei😂😂😂

[10/25, 11:18] ba vince: Greet my babies please😘😘😘

[10/25, 15:40] TATIANA: Ukuuya wat time….pliz be honest

[10/25, 15:50] TATIANA: Vekumba vakuvava nditengerewo magetsi….hanzi tirikuda kubika

[10/25, 15:52] ba vince: Ndaisa message ndichiti ndiri kutryer ne Ecocash

[10/25, 15:52] ba vince: Puhwa naBrandon e $2 uvhunze kuti can I send from here ne Ecocash

[10/25, 15:53] TATIANA: Ummm taura na landlord mari into mahwan

[10/25, 15:54] TATIANA: Iyo*

[10/25, 15:54] ba vince: Huh? Mari ipi? Hanty ndini ndobhadhara rent? Kana aine problem ngaafonere inini

[10/25, 15:55] ba vince: Hanty iemergency? It’s not like ndogara nemazimari paside. Kana usingadi gara coz I tell you to do something wotya landlord kupfuura ini murume wako here?

[10/25, 15:58] TATIANA: Tiri kubvurubvudzwa everyday hee vans varikuita noise….munotenga magetsi apera …vana ngavagare mumba

[10/25, 15:58] TATIANA: Saka tok to them

[10/25, 16:01] ba vince: You are failing as a mother. Ndovafonera everyday vanoramba kuti vanodaro voti ndiri kuvashaudhira mahara. Saka iwe unotadza kumiririra vana kuti zvadii? Ndoziva vamwe vana amai vanorwira mhuri dzavo. Iwe hameno kuti wakaitwei.

[10/25, 16:04] TATIANA: Ndinogara ndichitukana navo….vari kungidheerera kuti hapana munhu wemurume….vakakuona uchiuya vanorespector WO ….

[10/25, 16:05] ba vince: Iribho

[10/25, 16:05] ba vince: Am coming

[10/25, 16:05] ba vince: Coz zvanyaya

[10/25, 16:06] TATIANA: Yah sure hatina rugare

[10/25, 16:06] ba vince: Iribho

[10/25, 16:07] ba vince: But for now pihwa magetsi naBrandon mupihwe number nditumire

[10/25, 16:07] ba vince: Now. Zvemudhara uyo ane Aids ndozviona

[10/25, 16:12] TATIANA: Kkkkkk

[10/25, 17:55] ba vince: 7106 0082 7923 8357 1343

[10/25, 17:55] ba vince: Magetsi

[10/25, 17:56] TATIANA: Thanks …miss pa fon yamai keysha

[10/25, 17:56] ba vince: Ndaisa yaita 1 tick. Will bring more mangwana pandinouya

[10/25, 17:57] TATIANA: Aaaa wakuti mangwana futi

[10/25, 17:57] TATIANA: Dakukwirwa ka ini

[10/25, 17:58] TATIANA: Watone three weeks uchiti mangwana😞😞😞😞

[10/25, 18:06] ba vince: Shuwa

[10/25, 18:06] ba vince: Mangwana shuwa

[10/25, 18:09] ba vince: Ndouya mangwana.

[10/25, 18:09] ba vince: I promise. Can we not argue

[10/25, 18:16] TATIANA: Kana makuuya muuye nechikafu hatina chekubata…. Ndisirewo 150

[10/25, 18:20] TATIANA: $1;50*

[10/25, 18:22] ba vince: I know

[10/27, 17:59] ba vince: Mai Vince?

[10/27, 17:59] TATIANA: Yep

[10/27, 17:59] ba vince: I missed you ndikakutsvaga zvangu

[10/27, 18:00] TATIANA: Ummmm iwe kkkk prince charming

[10/27, 18:01] ba vince: Ndadii zvangu

[10/27, 18:01] ba vince: Ndotokusuwa nekukuda…kungoti dai uri mumoyo mangu

[10/27, 18:01] TATIANA: Hoooo

[10/27, 18:01] TATIANA: Inga

[10/27, 18:02] TATIANA: Kurisei Ku Den

[10/27, 18:03] ba vince: Kuribho

[10/27, 18:03] TATIANA: Takuonai my TV uchifamba Panga oachitaurwa zve funeral ya Joyce

[10/27, 18:04] ba vince: Asi hauchandida?

[10/27, 18:04] ba vince: Lol

[10/27, 18:04] TATIANA: Ahhh nop…l luv u more

[10/27, 18:05] TATIANA: This distance is killing me Dee

[10/27, 18:05] ba vince: Wakamboona something

[10/27, 18:06] ba vince: When we argue ndoshaya mari zvoaffecta vana newe?

[10/27, 18:06] ba vince: Wakamboona kuti pandinenge ndirikuda kuuya a big fight starts?

[10/27, 18:07] TATIANA: Yah that’s true… Maybe kugunun’una.

[10/27, 18:07] TATIANA: Ehee

[10/27, 18:09] TATIANA: Bbe nezuro takararira sadza ne sugar🙈

[10/27, 18:14] ba vince: Sorry hako

[10/27, 18:14] ba vince: Nezuro I had no money

[10/27, 18:14] ba vince: It’s really been tight handidi kunyepa

[10/27, 18:16] TATIANA: Its ohky l understand

[10/27, 18:19] TATIANA: Mum vane party musiwa 5 kumba u ar invited

[10/27, 18:19] ba vince: I love you and handina hutsinye newe

[10/27, 18:19] ba vince: I will come coz unenge waita move

[10/27, 18:20] TATIANA: I know Bbe….

[10/27, 18:20] TATIANA: Kul

[10/27, 18:21] ba vince: Am sorry about kushaya mari. Mbuya Ngwenya havasi kukweretesa sausage here?

[10/27, 18:21] ba vince: Vanozonetsa ini hangu

[10/27, 18:21] TATIANA: Handidi kuti vazive kuti haupo

[10/27, 18:22] TATIANA: Zvinozokumakisa

[10/27, 18:23] ba vince: Okay

[10/27, 18:23] ba vince: Hoooo havazivi?

[10/27, 18:24] ba vince: Ndongotaura navo as if am there

[10/27, 18:42] TATIANA: Ohky iri bho